Don't compare your life to others. There is no comparison between the sun and the moon. They shine when it's their time

These words are so beautiful but hardly one accepts. We know every person have not a same life to live, not the same surroundings to grow, not the same support system to flourish and with all this not the same talent to grow.

We make targets in our life. A proper plan- to pass matric at 16, 12th class at 18, graduation at 21, job till 25, marriage till 27 and then children at 29 or 30. A perfect map, isn't it? The figures may be different as per the choice of individuals but aspirations are more or less same. But do all we get that we expect.

"Expectations lead to destruction" is a clear cut mantra for a happy life. Evenly if somebody ask me what would you expect from your side in your board exams. So it was nothing. What i get is actually what i deserve but i still didn't expect. Expectations always arises from outside but if you really want to be cheerful so hardly expects; not only from you but also not from the society.

Success always doesn't mean good life, good job, good partner. It can be in whatever state you are, you are satisfied, cheerful and above all you are happy. In a feeling of pain, actually when you have bucket of pain and you know it will fade away sooner or later; still you are struggling hard but enjoying the journey, it means you are in a right place.

But wait do all plan works... No.it's not. Plan can be changed because destiny is not in your hands but if you can't switch quickly than surely you will be a big loser.

Success has its own definitions. In terms of happiness, poor person can be more successful than richer one. Why so? They don't take it for granted but live each moment happily.

But this doesn't mean you can't cross your limits. You should and you can. You should be at the top of the sky. Do best in whatever conditions you are. If 'plan A' doesn't work, switch to 'Plan B'. Don't define success as per to the other standards but make a unique definition of it as per your belief, will and above all your satisfaction.

Now, again read the top lines and accept it with a smile, with full of heart.....💞😊