Kour's views

Don't compare your life to others. There is no comparison between the sun and the moon. They shine when it's their time These words are so beautiful but hardly one accepts. We know every person have not a same life to live, not the same surroundings to grow, not the same support system to flourish and with all this not the same talent to grow. We make targets in our life. A proper plan- to pass matric at 16, 12th class at 18, graduation at 21, job till 25, marriage till 27 and then children at 29 or 30. A perfect map, isn't it? The figures may be different as per the choice of individuals but aspirations are more or less same. But do all we get that we expect. "Expectations lead to destruction" is a clear cut mantra for a happy life. Evenly if somebody ask me what would you expect from your side in your board exams. So it was nothing. What i get is actually what i deserve but i still didn't expect. Expectations always arises from outside but if you really want...

  Associations and Attachments are the two most important things in our life. ' Man is a social animal', 'He can't live alone' etc. are the statements that always stick to our minds by the people around. But really we can't live alone?? Psychology believes talking with your own self gives you motivation, a sign of self-reflection, helps in problem solving. However, if someone catch you while doing this what will be their reaction.... PAGAL HO GYI/GYA HAI KYA.... But this kind of pagalpan is more important in today's life than being associated with wrong people. In the world of insecurity, trust deficiency, hatredness and fake faces; to be alone, to be with your own self, to be honest with your soul and to love yourself is completely OK!! Don't become people hater but love yourself more than anything else. With this at least you remain in peace amd nobody will hurt you. Being in your fairer company than being part of fake world is more healthy for you. Af...