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Success: How you define it

Don't compare your life to others. There is no comparison between the sun and the moon. They shine when it's their time These words are so beautiful but hardly one accepts. We know every person have not a same life to live, not the same surroundings to grow, not the same support system to flourish and with all this not the same talent to grow. We make targets in our life. A proper plan- to pass matric at 16, 12th class at 18, graduation at 21, job till 25, marriage till 27 and then children at 29 or 30. A perfect map, isn't it? The figures may be different as per the choice of individuals but aspirations are more or less same. But do all we get that we expect. "Expectations lead to destruction" is a clear cut mantra for a happy life. Evenly if somebody ask me what would you expect from your side in your board exams. So it was nothing. What i get is actually what i deserve but i still didn't expect. Expectations always arises from outside but if you really want...

Let's Vibe Alone....

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  Associations and Attachments are the two most important things in our life. ' Man is a social animal', 'He can't live alone' etc. are the statements that always stick to our minds by the people around. But really we can't live alone?? Psychology believes talking with your own self gives you motivation, a sign of self-reflection, helps in problem solving. However, if someone catch you while doing this what will be their reaction.... PAGAL HO GYI/GYA HAI KYA.... But this kind of pagalpan is more important in today's life than being associated with wrong people. In the world of insecurity, trust deficiency, hatredness and fake faces; to be alone, to be with your own self, to be honest with your soul and to love yourself is completely OK!! Don't become people hater but love yourself more than anything else. With this at least you remain in peace amd nobody will hurt you. Being in your fairer company than being part of fake world is more healthy for you. Af...

Right To Life

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 With the caption may be you are thinking that today I am going to discuss about " Article 21 " ( Right to Life) . However, neither I want to write a political thesis nor I am interested in opening its different parameters. I just want you to pay heed towards women belonging to that section of the society whose rights are hardly taken care of as talking about them is considered indecent by the society. So, let me introduce them. They are so called sex workers. I am using the phrase so called because this phrase is chosen by us referring to their profession. But I very well remember what the one of my close friend told me..... Koi bhi aisa kaam majboori kyy bina nhi krega and I agreed because there is no need to explain what the term izzat means to a woman. My aggression raised when I read the SC judgement of July 2011 where it had been said "conditions conducive for sex workers who wish to continue as sex workers to live with dignity in accordance with the provisions of ...

#ME TOO: Is this enough

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 I am a girl, a women, a wife,  a sister, a lover and many more roles to play... But not a chattel, nor a product with which a man can play..... #ME too campaign started in 2018 that spread over social media and become the burning topic of the year. Somebody joined it to gain publicity, somebody highlighted it as a sensitive topic and for somebody it is a hidden truth for a very long period that just found a platform where the voice can be raised and heard. But can you think about those women who face this everyday and have no access to media at all. According to "THE MOBILE GENDER GAP REPORT 2022" less than 7% of women have access to mobile phones and less than 18% have access to internet. In this condition, how can the more peculiar issues come on the public front and justice can be given to them. A girl walking on a road, going to a school, a women travelling in public transport molested on a daily basis.. But are these cases reported daily and do they reach these platform...